When it comes to the time you were asked about your maturity (usually when your parent ask you about your decicion about going married), what would you say? To me it will be a lot easier to looks like mature outside, but it is truly hard to calm down the water stream inside. What is mature anyway? Does it mean we are calm, steady, word comes by wisdom, emotionally stable or what? If that you call mature, then it will be a piece of cake to me, really, but is it only that?
How about moody, about temporary loosing responsibility to own life, about ignoring deadlines at workplace? How about sleeping all day long, watching MTV all day long, about eating a great junk food, about smoking all around? (My father will be dissapointed if he know i did all of this stupid thing) Should mature people omit that from their life? To live straight without those?
If that so, oh gosh, it will be a long way to go to. Forget about classic coccoon stories of developing their wings. I don't give a damn to that "you called inspiring" stories. I am telling you about, that is not a life !!Actually, how many person of adult people is willing to throw all the fun for the sake of being mature? Seeing and look around, i guess it will be more than 70 % (Most Friendster user likely not included). How'd they do that? To live so well structured, so damn scheduled, so law abiding, so financially secure minded, and so put on norm?
(I am not talking about faith and religion, I of course have that and i do what i should do in my business with Him)
If a process to be a mature (or should i say ordinary? :p) will be that painful, i'd rather not to. I don't even use my helmet to go to my office. Why should we spend more our time and energy if all of it will not effect to our achievement? Just to be said that we are mature, that we are adult, that we are normal? Ouch, painful. Not a glimpse, I still love my mind.
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