Suddenly, a scrabble of question then came into my head like hungry bats scrambled out from a dark cave. To give this question out to all of you. What is exactly the reason of a serious relationship? To show everybody that you could attrack and keep for life an awesome face? a wealth and secure relatives? a chance to prove your loyalty to everybody? or just a perfect shaped mate to give you basic needs of human instinct with still put on norm?
This is a question with ignoring the feeling of loves, because i guess love is a temporarily feeling that ruined your mood and logic for no longer than 3-6 month. Longer than that, it is not love who hold you for still taking care of each other. But the comfort of being trusted, being understood, being taken care. The comfort of taking and giving, a share of secret keeping, a holding hand when you feel so alone and also a chance to finally found a mate to live and give you your reproductory product.
In other word, after three or six month your mind is being folded and blinded by the beauty of love (i say it is the work of hormones), your logic sinthesysed and finallly concluded that : this is the right person to be my mate. So, Voila !! then it becomes a birth of a new serious relationship.
At least until one extrordinary thing break what you've imagined, a broken commitent, or you finally found that what you've imagined from "the mate" is actually a wrong picture, or when one decided that one is too good for the other. Isn't it? It is all pure logic, don't be too naive to say it is love.
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