Love, such a sweet torment

forbidden fruit

To talk about love after you are married, will somehow mean two thing : A happy life with your couple, or an affair. Not much option left. If a married man fall in love, what should he do? We are talking about fall to someone that of course not your couple. Did he have any option left other than trying to bury that sinful feeling? Since when fall in love is a sin?
Since you are already married. That is for sure.

Than what if someone fall in love to a married one? Stupid they say. But did he/she have a choice to not fall? Than who's mistake is that? The one that fall in love,... or the the one they fall in love with.
I think both of them take part.

So it will comes to a conclusion : Love is a gift or a torment would be likely decided by choice. If I choose not to fall in love even my heart said so, I won't be sink in those sweet torment because I know I cannot afford it.

Then same question: If you could choose not to fall in love because you are forbidden, could you love someone because you choose it, not because you fall in it?
For those who haven't married until now and you are over 30, may be you should try. If you still lust for love and hope to marry someone because you fall in love with them, have a nice hunting. It is worth to try.

It is said 90% of your happiness depends on your marriage, if you find the right one what a wonderful life that be.
Love, is a sweet torment anyway